







We traveled to Italia! Here we are with Zio Dominico where my Dad was born. (Not literally in that wash basin.)
Jay and one of the many Fiats. I love those cars! Look how tiny it is.
On the bus to Pieve.
We had our first anniversary! Crazy.
Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. ~ Buddha








We traveled to Italia! Here we are with Zio Dominico where my Dad was born. (Not literally in that wash basin.)
Jay and one of the many Fiats. I love those cars! Look how tiny it is.
On the bus to Pieve.
We had our first anniversary! Crazy.
Gross, I know. The old tub and Jay ripped off the old shower surround.




Pictures of our bedroom coming soon. So far Jay has textured the walls, we painted (once - didn't like it and we will paint again tonight), and ripped out the carpet. No relaxing 3 day holiday weekends for us - work, work, work!
How do I make it special for Jay and I? How do I balance giving to the community and to my family? I feel pressured to buy buy buy. And yet I hate spending money on something they wouldn't use or want. But if I don't get them a gift I feel lousy.
I think this year I might be on the right track. I am joining a friend to ring a bell for the Salvation Army (which I think I might turn into a tradition for Jay and I). Jay and I donated to the Wenatchee Valley Humane Society and the Women's Resource Center in our families names and are giving that as a gifts instead. I am trying to remember it is not about the STUFF. At least not for me.
I don't think my journey will end this Christmas. I am pretty sure it is something I will struggle with every year, but I hope to make progress. I do love Christmas. I love the lights, smells, and sounds.
"It came without ribbons. It came without tags. It came without packages, boxes, or bags. Maybe Christmas doesn't come from a store. Maybe Christmas...means a little bit more." ~ The Grinch curtesy of Dr. Suess

This cartoon has nothing to do with it, I just thought it was funny.
